Typical Paradox.

Hello readers

Hope you all are doing great.

Great Minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events;small minds discuss people.

-Eleanor Roosevelt.

2016 begins  you know, as the years are rolling by our lives become more complex and we will have to take more responsibilities than we had taken in the previous year well, sooner we understand this truth we lead a peaceful life.

what is it to be judgmental?

Judgmental... We hear this word in all most all places, ask  people arguing they say you are being too judgmental  by not   giving me a legitimate chance  to counter. It is defined as predicting a person based on his physical appearance and making statements without any proof!

Brain’s power to cook up stories!

We all know brain is an organ which draws ideas, if it is fed with inputs in the form of vision, sound, speech or touch.

When we hear a song we identify the singer as the brain has stored without telling you the voice tagged to that singer!

But this machine if not guided by you in the right direction can mislead you. For example: just seeing a random stranger who has a sulky face and saying "that guy has lost happiness in life!"  How can we  just say that without even knowing what is his actual state of mind.

Do we know one of the functions of the brain is to keep you mentally healthy; it tries to do it by always transmitting neurological signals that generate hormones that make you egoistically strong and satisfying?

So the point is that brain being judgmental on everything and anything is habitual but you need think and keep your brain in control and stop it from over doing it.

It is  common for us to judge a person at the first instance itself. For example: when we see a house in a poor village where it is equipped with a dish  connection and fewest of the furniture immediately we think  are those people really poor? Or are they being just glorified as poor. We have come to a common judgmental paradox where what we see and the way we perceive to be correct even if the actual truth is not the same. 

 In this case we actually don’t know the exact status of those people in that house. We just jump into conclusions all of a sudden that they are rich We don’t give a second thought.

It is highly impossible for anyone to understand a person completely even if he/she is known for years together.

Randomly judging people without any motive is unnecessary and just not adding any value for your own life, so what is the point of  just getting worked up when you just see a person.

We should be judgmental only if it is necessary and  when you are about to take a decision, which involves another person and you entering into business.There are any more important situations like these.

All the best to all our readers have a great year ahead.

Thank you and have a  nice day.

Living with hope

Tejus R.S and Harish Murthy